Are we really supposed to be together? Does he love me? Between the hope and the fear of ruined illusions, we ask ourselves countless questions and wonder what to choose – emotional merging or distance. Don’t panic! This is a normal situation for every new love.
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After the Long Loneliness
If you have been single for a long time, starting a new relationship brings two temptations. One of them is succumbing to the social pressure that you should necessarily live together. Then, your close friends will start saying things like: “It looks like it’s really serious with this guy.” You must resist the pressure and think about your own desires. Another temptation is to refuse to make compromises and let your partner change your principles and ideals.
Don’t focus on the bad things, like the fact that he’s living far from you or he has a child from his first marriage. Trust your feelings. ….READ MORE ON THE NEXT PAGE